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Deflecting Negativity

This post is inspired by a recent encounter I had. 

It does not matter the type of person you are, how old you are, how intelligent you are, how successful you are or anything else the defines your as a person you will always run in to negative people. 

It saddens me that no matter the circumstances some people are eager to shed negativity on others. Isn’t the world supposed to be a happy place??

Take a quick moment and reflect on the last negative thought you had or said out loud about someone. Now before you had this thought did you take a moment to put yourself in their shoes to find out who they are or where they are coming from. 

The moral of this blog is that no matter who you are and what you do at some point in your life you will run into negativity, but don’t let it get you down!  

This may sound strange but be grateful for the negative. Turn the negativity into a strong driving force for you and do not swell on it for a second!

A lot of negativity comes from people perceptions and them not understanding. Some people are unwilling to change their perception on ‘what they are negative about’ by educating themselves from another point of view, these are the people who inflict negativity on others and there is absolutely no need for that. – Stay positive my friends :) 

I had an incident this morning where someone who has not attempted to reach out to me in any way slander my name. I, like many other people out there is a victim to negativity and it hurts a lot, it actually stings!

But at the same time I am grateful this happened.

It has reminded me how grateful I am that I work online in a community of 2,000+ supportive, inspiration, and uplifting people. I am grateful for my supportive and loving group of friends and family. I am grateful to be inspired to write this blog and hopefully it inspires other people not to allow negativity into their lives. 

I am grateful that this blog post will make a few people thinking twice before a negative thought even crosses through their minds. 

The universe works in mysterious ways and I know that what ever you put out you will receive back. When you reflect positive, and inspirational light on people daily you will be surround by this in your life. When you reflect negatively on aspects of your like you will receive negative into your life. 

Don’t let others get to you down, you are stronger than you think! Your dreams, are worth you chasing no matter if people think they are right or wrong they are your dreams. 

Stay inspired and stay driven and always let the negativity wash down your back. 

‘That’s my gift. I let that negativity roll off me like water off a duck’s back. If it’s not positive, I didn’t hear it. If you can overcome that, fights are easy.’ – George Foreman


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